Say what matters, even when you can't be there.
When someone you love has passed, distance shouldn't keep you from their farewell. Record a short message — by video, voice, or a few written words — and the family keeps every one, together, in a single private place.
A quiet place to say goodbye, in your own words.
Not everyone can stand at the service. Some are too far away, some can't travel, and some simply can't find the words in the moment. Selfie Condolences gives them a gentle, unhurried way to be there — and gives the family every message to keep.
For anyone who can't be there
Friends and distant family, those who can't travel, or anyone lost for words at the service.
Any way you'd like to say it
A short video, a voice note, a written message, or a favorite photo and memory.
Kept by the family, forever
Every tribute gathered into one private archive they can keep, download, and revisit.
This is what the family receives.
Each message arrives in one gentle, private collection — kept for the family to hold onto, and to share at the service if they wish.
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“You taught half this town to love books. Rose will grow up on your stories.”
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“Put the kettle on, Nora. We'll figure it out — like you always said.”
An illustration. Nora Whitcomb is a fictional example used to show how a family's collection looks — not a real person or a real tribute.
When you can't be in the room, your voice still can be.
Gentle for everyone it touches.
It asks nothing of people in a hard moment — and takes the scramble of collecting messages off the family's shoulders.
For those leaving a message
- No blank-screen panic — gentle prompts help you find the words.
- Any device, about two minutes, and no account to create.
- Nervous on camera? Send your voice, or simply write a few lines.
For the family
- Every message in one place — nothing lost across texts and inboxes.
- You review each tribute privately before it ever appears.
- Keep them forever, and play a tribute reel at the service.
Simple, from first page to final farewell.
Two gentle paths: one for the family creating a loved one's page, one for everyone invited to leave a message on it.
Start the page
Add their name, dates, and a favorite photo. It takes a few minutes.
Tell their story
Write a few words — or let gentle prompts help — and build a photo gallery.
Invite family & friends
Share one private link by text or email. You choose who can contribute.
Review & keep
Approve each tribute privately, play a reel at the service, keep the archive forever.
Open the link
See your loved one's page and a warm invitation from the family.
Choose how
Record a video, leave your voice, write a note, or share a photo.
Say it, guided
Gentle prompts help you find the words. Re-record as often as you like.
Send
Preview, then send. The family reviews it before it appears — nothing is public first.
Where would you like to begin?
Three simple ways in, whether you're leaving a message, creating a page, or offering this to the families you serve.
Record a Tribute
Someone shared a link to a loved one's page. Leave a short video, voice note, written message, or photo — guided every step.
Record a tributeCreate a Memorial Page
Set up a private page for someone you've lost, invite family and friends, and gather every tribute in one gentle place.
Create a pageOffer It to Families
Give the families you serve branded tribute links and a simple dashboard — a caring touch that sets your firm apart.
See the offeringA quiet way to care, well beyond the service.
Give every family their own branded tribute page and a simple dashboard to manage it. It comforts the families you serve — and quietly sets your firm apart.
We're opening this to a small number of families and funeral homes first.
Selfie Condolences is being built alongside working funeral directors. Tell us who you are and we'll reach out personally as places open — no charge during the pilot.
Be there — in your own words.
It takes about two minutes, from anywhere you are.